All the dating books say that it takes three months to "really" get to know somebody. So, if you find someone that you think you're interested, you'd better learn to sit tight and hang out in the unknown for three long excruciating month. It's sort of like a three-month auditioning process where you're not sure if you're the casting director or the actor. You may think you're the one making the cuts, and then suddenly you've been told "don't call us, we'll call you." Just for today, I can withstand the agony of dating.