I am not only willing, I am committed to letting go of old boyfriend(s) who can't, or don't want, or don't know how, or have issues with their parents so they can't, or whatever (I'm not really interested anymore), HAVE A LOVING RELATIONSHIP. Tonight, I will light a candle (which I actually do every night) and write said person's name and burn it (except I might do it over the kitchen sink because fire scares me). Or maybe I'll discover a new ritual that doesn't involve fire. Maybe I'll write his name on a napkin and turn the faucet on so that it makes the napkin so wet you can't read his name! (Though, that doesn't have quite the power that fire does). Ok, on second thought, I'll rip it and put it in the freezer! OK, so who really cares what new methods I employ...the point is, is that I'm willing to have a loving relationship with someone who is free from all of their crap. Just for today, I can let go (for real this time.)